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There Is Strength In Numbers

Let me start by saying I have debated writing this post for at least the past three months. Why? Well the post has nothing to do about benefitting your business online or how to use some sort of new social media tool. In fact, let me just get it out in the first paragraph and say that this post is about me and a situation I am in now where I need your help. If that bothers you, feel free to click off this post now.

As some of you may or may not know, in October of this year my wife and I are going to accomplish something that has been a passion of both of us. Before we even got married almost six years ago we both decided we wanted to make differences in other people’s lives through taking short-term missions trips to other countries. On October 22nd we will be loading a plane to head out on our first trip as a couple for one month. We will be traveling to Tirunelveli, India, Abu Dhabi in the United Arab Emirates, and to both Johannesburg & Cape Town, South Africa. If you want to see all the details of our trip, you can visit the site I built specifically for it at http://sendustosouthafrica.com.

While on this trip I’ll be working closely with teams in each of the areas we travel to help them get the equipment they need as well as assist them in getting it all set up so that they will be able to stream their services worldwide and get their churches set up online. I will be holding sessions during the day with businessmen and women in the various locations to show them how to use technology to increase their businesses which is what I do daily with my business.

Another thing we plan to do on this trip is work closely with the leadership in the churches in some leadership training. During the days we are planning to spend time working closely with an orphanage in Cape Town, South Africa that helps children that have been abandoned or have diseases. This part has my wife Katherine beyond excited. At night we will be participating in many revival type services where we will minister to thousands the Gospel in the multiple countries. It’s also been rumored that there might be a few small construction type jobs for us to handle while there which is fine by me.

My final job during this trip will be document everything to share with the church family when we return home in both pictures and video. Many times people know you go on a missions trip, but they never get to see what the results were of their generosity in supporting you.

So here’s my challenge to everyone: We have three days to raise basically $5,000 and meet our goal. Maybe right now you are strapped tight and don’t have the extra to share. I get that & understand completely. As someone who owns his own business and has a family with two young children I truly understand. If you can’t give monetarily, will you at least assist me by sharing this post with your friends on the various social networks? The more people who view this post means the more chances we have to reaching our goal by the September 10th deadline. I’ve heard sayings before “There’s strength in numbers” and “Many hands make the load light” which I believe are both very applicable right now.

If you are like me, you have probably think a small donation wouldn’t do much help, so why even bother. My type of personality can sometimes be that all or nothing type, where if I can’t give the $5,000 needed, then there’s no point in giving any. But, if 500 people each made a $10 donation, we would have things covered in full. Most everyone I know has the ability to spare that right now. That’s the equivalent of a Frappuccino & bagel one morning at Starbucks or a #9 value meal at McDonald’s.

So can you help us out? I’m placing the donation form below. If you make a donation, please let me know by either tweeting about it with the hashtag #5KFORSA. If you are not on Twitter, send me a message on Facebook or whatever other means you want. On behalf of myself and my wife, I want to sincerely thank everyone for their generosity!

Let me finish by saying this, if this post offended you or upset you, I apologize. I promise that this will be the only time you hear me ask for donations for this trip on this site. As I stated in my opening paragraph, I debated writing here for several months before constructing this post. I felt that as this is my most popular site of all the ones I own, it would be the most likely place to share this post. If you want to follow along as we take this upcoming trip, I hope to update this site while we are gone.

How Much Do You Pay For Your Online Reputation?

Online Consulting, Social Media Advisors, Social Media Speaker

This past week I was down in Miami presenting as a Social Media Speaker for the National Association of REALTORS® at their Tech Edge event. While there presenting, one of the sessions I participated in was a panel regarding your online reputation. Shortly after finishing the discussion I was checking my inbox and found an email that made me chuckle. The first line of the email was:

Google is now using business reviews to determine business ranking. People are trashing companies with reviews, Complaint sites and Blogs. We can help you defend your company by posting positive Reviews, Blogs and creating Websites to take over Search Results and control what people see about your company.

Now, I’ve heard that some people pay companies for reviews in the past, but this was the first time I’ve ever received an email about it. This got me to thinking, how much would you be willing to pay for positive & very bogus written reviews of your company? My interest got peaked by this, so I visited the link in the email to look at their pricing. Here’s their monthly fees:

Twenty to One Hundred Dollars a Month? I was a little shocked by the amount of money someone would ask for a review to be written that isn’t even legit. Seeing this made me lose my cool for a few minutes.

Buying a Fake Reputation vs. Fixing The Issue

Here’s why I got so upset. To me, I cannot even fathom going to a company like this and spending that type of money to have someone else create fake positive reviews of my company and post out on the internet to try and cover up something negative stated about it. Instead of spending money to just sweep issues under the rug, I am a strong believer in simply giving great customer service, good quality products, and addressing any issues that may arise. I believe that before a company turns to spending money here, they should use those resources to try and address the complaints being made by consumers who had a bad experience.

In most instances, if you address a problem someone has, and fix the problem, they are more than willing to either remove their bad reviews, edit the negative review to state things are now resolved. Some will even be turned from your biggest complainer to your biggest cheerleader writing good things about how you fixed the problem and share it with the world as loudly as they shared the complaint.

How Do You Extinguish Online Fires?

Sometimes there are things that happen online where you wrongfully get attacked by others. What do you do when this happens? Unfortunately there is no magic answer to solve all cases. The one piece of advice that I would share with everyone is to make sure you don’t act out on emotions. When you feel attacked, your first instinct is to become defensive and emotional. I would always suggest you take time to calmly assess the situation before responding. Cooler heads will definitely always prevail.

While there is no magic bullet to extinguish an online fire, here are a few examples of disasters and how they were handled.

Community To The Rescue

One of my friends Ines, was attacked over a story that ran in her local newspaper. While she was excited of the great publicity both her & the restaurant she was discussing received from the news, someone who read the story didn’t feel the same way. They turned this great publicity into their opportunity to personally attack her and her reputation.

In this instance, she had a great community of friends online, that came to her defense. They began telling others on the post how great a person she was and how the accusations made against her were not warranted. It quickly became obvious to anyone reading the story that the attacker simply had a personal issue with Ines and that they were using this platform as a way to launch an attack against her. After time, the attacker finally quieted and the situation was no longer volatile.

Kill It With Amazing Service

The second example comes courtesy of my friend Bill Lublin. Bill owns several investment properties all around the Philadelphia area. One of the properties he owns was placed under scrutiny by someone and Bill was called out by name in the complaint. In this situation, it was best for Bill to step in, do some investigation, and respond publicly to the complaint on the message board. The complaints said that the property was not being taken care of, it was damaging values of homes around it, etc.

As Bill checked into the situation, he found that while his property is located in the area the complaint was filed, the unit he owned had been fully renovated, had a very good tenant in place and that the accusations were false. Before responding though, he sent someone out to the property to do a full inspection and make sure that there were no issues in his property. Once he had this information, he went to the message board and posted public responses regarding all the accusations that were made. After doing so, it was only a matter of time before the complaints were removed.

Address The Situation Personally

The last suggestion I would make for handling situations online is to address the complaint personally. By this I mean either calling the person on the phone or meeting with them face to face. Unfortunately too many times we try to fix things the quick and easy way through a tweet, email or text message and unfortunately our tone of voice and the reaction of the other person then get lost making it almost impossible to know what exactly the other person is feeling.

If we take the time and effort to make a personal touch to resolve the issue, it will go a very long way.

Buy The Bogus Or Manage Your Own

So in closing, there are basically two options you have available to you. You can either buy bogus reviews that many consumers will recognize as fake to cover up something bad. Or simply do the right things when it comes to running your business and address any situations that come up. Handle these complaints properly and the end result can be better than the original complaint!